tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8646550256480023962.post5516730639452793648..comments2023-03-24T12:43:32.932+00:00Comments on It's Complicated: Deal...Lexie Bellafontehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06163031738486495406noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8646550256480023962.post-65075403951550961532013-03-10T20:25:57.299+00:002013-03-10T20:25:57.299+00:00Hi stranger :DD How are you?? Long time so speak.....Hi stranger :DD How are you?? Long time so speak...type...talk :D<br />Not preachy at all :D And to be honest I'm not sure what I think, or what I was getting at. But you're right, just being is the way forward. <br />And it is shit. Sometimes :p But I was very low when I wrote this. I'm currently floating on a cloud of happy dust so, at the moment, life is ok-ish :D <br />Hope you're ok too. And I know I haven't been around much on here recently but if you ever want to talk drop me an email :D xxx Lexie Bellafontehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06163031738486495406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8646550256480023962.post-47327451119635475192013-03-08T23:29:15.595+00:002013-03-08T23:29:15.595+00:00"He's just hiding behind a veil of prickn..."He's just hiding behind a veil of prickness." Favourite quote of the week.<br /><br />I can really relate to this whole you wanting the guy to know the 'old' you rather than the current version, it's like you're afraid he's not really SEEING you, or the parts you want him most to see. And I understand that desire to delineate past you from current you, because maybe it makes it seem as though you're separated from a lot of bad stuff? OR, if I've totally misread the post, it's not really a desire to have two versions of yourself but because you're so aware of the differences that's how it is in your head? Either way, compartmentalizing like that, I think it can complicate things, because it kind of forces you to constantly analyse and tweak your behaviour to fit with how you want to be...but why not just like, be? I know right, easier said than done, metaphysical can of worms. <br /><br />It's just that, I really really really hope you don't allow this guy to get all symbolically tangled up in your other stuff, because it's so tempting and so easily done, but I've been there, and man does it hurt like a bitch.<br /><br />Also, LIFE IS NOT SHIT. Okay, a noticeable percentage of it is, but lots of it is really wonderful, and you should focus on that :).<br /><br />Didn't mean to write a comment as long as the post! Or one that borders on preachy, but I saw myself two years ago in this, so I had to say something.<br /><br />Here if you need to talk :). Be well xRosiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14206672118507672697noreply@blogger.com